本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Last year I went back my hometown. It has been for years since I left it.
The mood was not so happy. On the one hand, my study has not finished yet. Although there were lots of job interviews, no one offer was gotten; on another hand, I was very eager to stay with my father for some time, but it seems that I can not do that, I need to look for a girl friend (my hometown is not in city).
Staying at home two days, I went to my provincial city and found the largest marriage agent., ....., Finally, I focused on one girl, who basically
matches my requirements. It was very tiring! She also not lives in city (half-an hour's bus) and I need to lived in hotel. ..... When I came back Canada, I bought a small gift to her ($150RMB), but she did not give me
one. My train was at 6:00pm. She also not saw off me at train station.
After I came back to school, Each week I phoned her and sent emails each other. It seems that the relationship went smoothly. In that time,
I was very busy (preparing for thesis defence and hunting for jobs).
Luckily, I successed in getting an offer. She asked me when I will
go back China, I told her I will go sometime in the next year. After a
month hard work for thesis, I finished my study, which was approaching
Christmas. The second day of my defence, I took half day in the shopping
center to select a gift for her.
On Christmas day, I reached Toronto to start working, I checked emails,but no her email (I was also too busy to send her email, but I called her two days ago). On new year day, I called her at 9:00pm, but she was not at home. The following weekend, I called her again. I asked whether she received my gift, she told me she received it on Dec.31 and the gift was not so good!!! My god, she had received it for one week and not told me. moreover no thanks!!!
I thought that it was time for me to give her up! I stop writting emails and calling her, but she still continue writing emails to me.
What is your opinion?, Is my decision wrong?更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
The mood was not so happy. On the one hand, my study has not finished yet. Although there were lots of job interviews, no one offer was gotten; on another hand, I was very eager to stay with my father for some time, but it seems that I can not do that, I need to look for a girl friend (my hometown is not in city).
Staying at home two days, I went to my provincial city and found the largest marriage agent., ....., Finally, I focused on one girl, who basically
matches my requirements. It was very tiring! She also not lives in city (half-an hour's bus) and I need to lived in hotel. ..... When I came back Canada, I bought a small gift to her ($150RMB), but she did not give me
one. My train was at 6:00pm. She also not saw off me at train station.
After I came back to school, Each week I phoned her and sent emails each other. It seems that the relationship went smoothly. In that time,
I was very busy (preparing for thesis defence and hunting for jobs).
Luckily, I successed in getting an offer. She asked me when I will
go back China, I told her I will go sometime in the next year. After a
month hard work for thesis, I finished my study, which was approaching
Christmas. The second day of my defence, I took half day in the shopping
center to select a gift for her.
On Christmas day, I reached Toronto to start working, I checked emails,but no her email (I was also too busy to send her email, but I called her two days ago). On new year day, I called her at 9:00pm, but she was not at home. The following weekend, I called her again. I asked whether she received my gift, she told me she received it on Dec.31 and the gift was not so good!!! My god, she had received it for one week and not told me. moreover no thanks!!!
I thought that it was time for me to give her up! I stop writting emails and calling her, but she still continue writing emails to me.
What is your opinion?, Is my decision wrong?更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net