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Maybe I expect more?

gelatin(gelatin)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I have a lover. He treats me very nice but he is so cheap at some occasion. My finance situation is pretty good and that is enough for me buying anything I want. But as a woman I still hope to get surprise from him at special time. I know his background and understand his situation. So I always choice restaurant with low price dish. Because I know if we are happy together I do not care what he can supply to me. Recently I was very disappointed due to my birthday. As a woman I hope he can give me either flower or card at that time. I never expect and ask he will buy something for me. Unfortunately nothing-even greeting from him. I think there were only two reasons for this issue: he does not take me seriously or he does care him money too much. I did give him hint but nothing responds. Before I prefer to date Chinese guy due to same background and it is easy to know each other. It is time to change my mind. So my experience is if you want to find guy who can make you smile and feel pampered, please do not date Chinese guy.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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Last Updated: 2003-8-15
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / Maybe I expect more? -gelatin(gelatin); 2003-8-15 {1037} (#1332998@0)
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I have a lover. He treats me very nice but he is so cheap at some occasion. My finance situation is pretty good and that is enough for me buying anything I want. But as a woman I still hope to get surprise from him at special time. I know his background and understand his situation. So I always choice restaurant with low price dish. Because I know if we are happy together I do not care what he can supply to me. Recently I was very disappointed due to my birthday. As a woman I hope he can give me either flower or card at that time. I never expect and ask he will buy something for me. Unfortunately nothing-even greeting from him. I think there were only two reasons for this issue: he does not take me seriously or he does care him money too much. I did give him hint but nothing responds. Before I prefer to date Chinese guy due to same background and it is easy to know each other. It is time to change my mind. So my experience is if you want to find guy who can make you smile and feel pampered, please do not date Chinese guy.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 总之，你对谁也不要抱太大希望。给你讲个笑话：一女孩约会一本地人。一起出去的时候，此人得ticket一张，通知这个女孩，平摊。嗬嗬，不管黑猫白猫，有钱就是好猫。 -lilyba(sunshine困惑不懂装懂); 2003-8-15 (#1333002@0)
    • 1."Am I expecting too much?" 2. He is going to dump you 3. The reason is you are a phony girl. -chance(enna); 2003-8-15 {139} (#1333003@0)
      4. Maybe you got a bad apple, but don't apply that to all Chinese guy, at least in Canada, Chinese guys are more loyal than Chinese girls.
      • I do not think. Loyalty could not make any serse without feeling. BTW, lady has more chances than guy in Canada. -gelatin(gelatin); 2003-8-15 (#1333025@0)
        • So make good use of your "CHANCE", nobody is holding you back, just don't apply your bias to all Chinese guy, it's kind of disgusting! -chance(enna); 2003-8-15 (#1333075@0)
      • 呵呵，最好还是别一棍子都打死掉了吧？认识了几个Chinese girls in Canada呀？怎么知道you guy 就是loyal的呢？ -yoyo_ying(yoyo); 2003-8-15 (#1333142@0)
    • My advice is that don't date a guy with lower income than you no matter he is yellow or white. -bitterapple(sweet now); 2003-8-15 {227} (#1333016@0)
      Obviously, he is not taking you seriously and maybe he is seeing somebody else or at least would like to. Just ask him. I am sure it is not because of money.
      BTW, my birthday is coming, I am wondering what is going to happen.
      • He makes more money than me only just keep pocket tight. AI, QIONGSHUAN, I hate this. -gelatin(gelatin); 2003-8-15 (#1333030@0)
    • 这样的男人那都有，中国的，本地的，没有区别。下一次约一个懂得宠你的就行，可能是中国人也可能是非中国人，看缘分了。：) -wade(wade); 2003-8-15 (#1333060@0)
    • Actually he does pay more attention to me -gelatin(gelatin); 2003-8-15 {299} (#1333082@0)
      Actually he does pay more attention to me. Only one thing I could not understand why he keeps pocket so tight. Maybe he was poor once and could not be generous any more. I do not know why Chinese guy live so overload even they have pretty good income. I like ghost’s personality: funny and optimist
      • 开口闭口，Chinese guy，我看你也好不到哪里去，又没有人拿枪逼你去dating，高兴去就去，不高兴就别去，去还要去，去完了废话多，何必呢 -oceandeep(北极熊·抓只猫来踢一); 2003-8-15 {72} (#1333084@0)
        想证明什么呢，鬼子好就找鬼子去，这里鬼子比较少，叫唤没用的，加油站那里多
        • 您老咋的啦? :p -eagles(海阔天空); 2003-8-15 (#1333100@0)
        • I do. -gelatin(gelatin); 2003-8-15 {302} (#1333101@0)
          I do date ghost right now. Nice gentleman, professor with high income. Treat me like queen. In addition, who cares if date guy work at gas station. Minimums you got your English better and better. Just want to share my experience to JJMM. Do not you find most situation is female want to divoice first?
          • you don't want to date a grease monky,do you? -lazycal(飞鹰战士); 2003-8-15 (#1333104@0)
          • HOHO，忍不住再骂你了，至少可以学英语？哈哈，最好你1个月DATE一个，这样世界上200多国家的语言至少你都会 -oceandeep(北极熊·抓只猫来踢一); 2003-8-15 {58} (#1333130@0)
            从你字里行间看出，哪个中国男的真看上你，哈哈，那也真瞎了眼
            • Good point. :-P -henhen(哼哼, 找工ing ^_^); 2003-8-15 (#1333137@0)
          • 没法和你这种只顾生理需要的人讲道理 -surfnet(surfnet); 2003-8-15 {114} (#1333133@0)
            也许你很欣赏鬼佬和你哪个时就象对待动物一样的感觉，（和对待女王一样？）相信正派的中国女孩子对你的鬼话是嗤之以鼻的。
          • 你把恋爱当成了交易，可以学英语、挣钱。。。 何不去当那个？为什么和鬼子一样虚伪，非得立个牌坊不可？ -surfnet(surfnet); 2003-8-15 (#1333145@0)
        • she just tried to find some supports to balance ... donot take it serious though. -ra_95(小人--我胡汉三又....); 2003-8-15 (#1333110@0)
      • A lot of Canadian men are frugals too. It has nothing to do with races. It is just a lifestyle. -wade(wade); 2003-8-15 (#1333085@0)
        • I tell ya why, 'coz Canadians are mostly Scottish, not Enligsh. ;) -ztech(Zoo Technician); 2003-8-15 (#1333102@0)
      • 我记得梁凤仪有本小说提过世家子和攀龙附凤的人只消一眼看破。和和，无它，攀龙附凤总得有些代价，攀与被攀，大家都心知肚明的，看破就好何必说破?:) -rainrain(雨 雨霏门); 2003-8-15 (#1333131@0)
    • 恋爱的时候还是找个与自己消费观接近的人，不然，昏后一方要的浪漫在另一方眼里是腐败，那是就是天天烦了。 -yihan(逸涵); 2003-8-15 (#1333103@0)
    • 看你为了什么目的dating，又更在乎什么了。 -yoyo_ying(yoyo); 2003-8-15 {216} (#1333153@0)
      没送生日礼物也许只是忘了，虽然这有些令人生气。不过，如果是为了寻找个爱你一辈子的人结婚，有没有生日礼物可不是衡量的标准哦……大多数鬼子们是比中国男士重视所谓的绅士风度、浪漫情调，可是骨子里头的货色可就不一定了，呵呵。
      • Yes. You are right not like some guy react so emotionaly -gelatin(gelatin); 2003-8-15 (#1333164@0)
    • Well, you probably haven't dated Chinese guys like me... :-) On the other hand, people treats u accordingly. If you pick up cheap restaurants every time, why would he not pick a one dollar necklace for the cheap girl like you? -madblue(Crazy about you); 2003-8-15 (#1333168@0)
      • 我想你误会楼主了。她是为了替男友着想，才选择便宜一些的餐馆的。为什么要说她是cheap girl呢？ -yoyo_ying(yoyo); 2003-8-15 (#1333197@0)

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