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Boyfried is flirting with me online, but he does not know who am I?

lovespy(liardetective)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛My boyfriend and I were friends for many many years before having any intimate relationship. I believe he adorees me and loves me with all his heart, but I still sensed that he's having the desire to date other girls or he has female admirers around him (we are not living in the same city), because lots of times when I call him, he either does not pick up phone right away or he changes his tone when talking to me as if talking to a friend. I conronted him, but he denies it and assured me that he is not interested in any other girls. Few days ago, I found out his other e-mail account which he used to date girls online before. So I signed up a new e-mail account and contacted him with a false identity-an atractive girl 10 years younger my age. I showed interest in him and asked if he is available. His anwser was "yes" and he said he'd love to get to know me and have some fun together. I almost fainted when heard him saying that. Last night he called me and told me that I am the most important woman for him and he wants to spend rest of his life with me. How could I believe him? What should I do?更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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Last Updated: 2003-10-7
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / Boyfried is flirting with me online, but he does not know who am I? -lovespy(liardetective); 2003-10-7 {1115} (#1402069@0)
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛My boyfriend and I were friends for many many years before having any intimate relationship. I believe he adorees me and loves me with all his heart, but I still sensed that he's having the desire to date other girls or he has female admirers around him (we are not living in the same city), because lots of times when I call him, he either does not pick up phone right away or he changes his tone when talking to me as if talking to a friend. I conronted him, but he denies it and assured me that he is not interested in any other girls. Few days ago, I found out his other e-mail account which he used to date girls online before. So I signed up a new e-mail account and contacted him with a false identity-an atractive girl 10 years younger my age. I showed interest in him and asked if he is available. His anwser was "yes" and he said he'd love to get to know me and have some fun together. I almost fainted when heard him saying that. Last night he called me and told me that I am the most important woman for him and he wants to spend rest of his life with me. How could I believe him? What should I do?更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • Sounds you don't know him and have no control of the relationship,what a pain if you love him! This kind of lair is not even good enough as friends. -tuantuan(terminater); 2003-10-7 (#1402080@0)
    • Don't spy on ur BF . you don't wanna know the result for sure . -dontgoaway(noway); 2003-10-7 (#1403191@0)
      • Spying on him is not pleasant at all, it hurts me so badly everytime when I (as the girl) talk with him online. I know the result already. -lovespy(liardetective); 2003-10-8 {119} (#1403969@0)
        Our relationship will soon hit the dead end. For now I just want to wait and discover everything he's hiding from me.
        • non-chinese?............Just curious. ;-P -babyface(★Cry Me A River★); 2003-10-8 (#1404403@0)
          • i'm a pure Chinese. -lovespy(liardetective); 2003-10-8 (#1404591@0)
    • You have a good start. Just wait and see. -euphoria(euphoria); 2003-10-7 (#1403214@0)
    • 我的观点是: -smilingears(微笑的耳朵); 2003-10-7 {134} (#1403289@0)
      男人的这种鬼话最好不要信, 你自己的话也自相矛盾, 既然你觉得他是with all his heart来love你, 为何还有其他sense. 趁早炒掉他, 长痛不如短痛.
      • 从前做普通朋友时觉得对他好象更了解一些，成为情人后突然发现对他的了解真的很少，但我知道他是很在意我的， -lovespy(liardetective); 2003-10-8 {245} (#1404795@0)
        我们之间的感情不是那种充满激情的，更多的是象家人之间的亲情。他总说怕失去我，但好像并没表现出来他有信心和决心给我许诺一个幸福的将来，本以为需要给他多一些时间来获得对男人来说最重要的东西-事业的成功，谁知他竟还有这种不可告人的心思。我的心都伤透了！
    • An Absolute Player! the problem is how much love you feel for him? -undeadbird(不死鸟); 2003-10-7 (#1403306@0)
    • I think you have already made your decision. Just go ahead and see how he behaves with the fake MM on the net. The further he goes, the easier for you to break with him. That guy sucks. -sweetpotato(番薯糖水); 2003-10-8 (#1404606@0)
      • Thank you for all your kind input. Keeping pretending to be another person in this situation drains my energy. Does anybody wants to take over? -lovespy(liardetective); 2003-10-8 (#1404656@0)
        • After getting enough evidence, just let him know who you are. He will suffer from that. -sweetpotato(番薯糖水); 2003-10-8 (#1404764@0)
        • Don't take it so seriously. Things take time. -lovelybaby(亲亲宝贝); 2003-10-9 {303} (#1405123@0)
          If you care too much, it is you who will get hurt. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with this kind of person. No matter he's young or old, it's hard for him to change his attituide towards this loving staff. So the most important thing is that you should know how to protect yourself.
        • don't spy on him just for curiousness, you will be hurt. -ppangel(ppangel); 2003-10-9 {393} (#1405802@0)
          The more you know, the sadder you will feel. Anyway,if you love him, you should try to believe him. Maybe he is just kidding with the little girl,and nothing happened.but if you can't trust him any longer,stop spying,dump him! My boyfriend also has some on-line friends,I'm unhappy about this too,but he told me they are just friends,nothing else,so I have to believe him because I love him.
    • not the right approach! -tigs(tigs); 2003-10-9 {58} (#1406135@0)
      I don't think you are handling the issue in a right way!

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