after bj trip, i wrote him an email about his feeling of our relationship. This is something he responded:
I think your explanation below is interesting.
> Largely, my feeling is the same but I'm wondering
> why
> it's so easy for you to articulate this.... Of
> course
> English is my first language yet you've explained
> some
> things better (& simpler) than I can....
>
> In short, the clarity of your thinking after the
> time
> in Beijing is what I was expecting (& hoping for)...
> When we'd met in Toronto (in July), I was very
> concerned about the decisions weighing on you & your
> ability to think clearly. Life altering decisions
> like
> this have a lasting effect on long term happiness.
> None of them should be made under any kind of
> duress...
I think your explanation below is interesting.
> Largely, my feeling is the same but I'm wondering
> why
> it's so easy for you to articulate this.... Of
> course
> English is my first language yet you've explained
> some
> things better (& simpler) than I can....
>
> In short, the clarity of your thinking after the
> time
> in Beijing is what I was expecting (& hoping for)...
> When we'd met in Toronto (in July), I was very
> concerned about the decisions weighing on you & your
> ability to think clearly. Life altering decisions
> like
> this have a lasting effect on long term happiness.
> None of them should be made under any kind of
> duress...