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赠所有孤单在情人节的人。

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Valentines Day is NOT only for Lovers!Valentines Day is a day to not only express your love for others but also to love yourself. Below are 10 thoughts you can do on Valentines Day to make the day special for you:

1. Look around you and appreciate those who care about you, be thankful they are in your life.

2. Rather than expect a card, send a card to someone special in your life (your mum, a relative, a friend) and thank them for being them.

3. Treat yourself on Valentines Day… if you don't love yourself then you will never be able to love others in a meaningful way.

4. Call your mum or your dad, or that someone who made a difference in your life and thank them for caring about you.

5. Enjoy your day, remember, that you are exchanging a day of your life.

6. Take 5 minutes and sit quietly and reflect on all the blessings in your life. Remember there are always those who are in a worse situation than you.

7. Do something nice for someone today. . . it may be as simple as smiling at someone in an elevator to buying someone a coffee.

8. Call that friend or relative that you have not talked with in awhile.

9. Cook or buy your favorite meal for dinner.

10. Last but not least, don't feel sorry for yourself; be thankful for all the good in your life!

Enjoy this Valentines Day, make it a day you look forward to!更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 快乐单身 / 今年情人节一个人过的来注册一下吧!
    ME,MALE:
    franklei@hotmail.com
      • hehe, who can match up to 格格's expectation
      • 顶到顶,呵呵
    • Me too! : )
      • me too.一个人过情人节有什么不好的,自己care自己就ok了
    • me too
    • 我是和许多人一块过的,我们在讨论如何把降学费的斗争坚持下去并发扬光大
    • I am lonely
    • Me.
    • I am alone.
    • 孤单的人那么多,快乐的能有几个?呵呵
      • 我快乐。真正的快乐来自于内心,而不是来源于外在的物质。你可以把你的快乐带给别人,但你不应该想着怎样从别人身上得到快乐,这是缘木求鱼。
        • 自己顶一下。哈哈,觉得自己越来越会说话了。
        • 靠,我看不见得!
          • 比如:你觉得不快乐,难道找一个女(男)友或情人真能使你快乐了?是的。可这快乐是虚假的,因为他建立在外界物化的基础上,而且不是你本身能控制的。它容易失去,一旦失去,你就会更痛苦,安刚就是最好的例子。人应追求自身的完善。
            • 如果你追求正义,如果你坚信自己做的事是对的,你一定会快乐的。
          • 很多人当他们以为自己失去了爱(其实只是欲)后,只想从更多的人身上找回这种感觉,所以堕落了。如果他们能明白真正的爱只有通过完善自己才能找到的话,这世上会少很多悲剧。我说的是你。
          • 很多人因为失去了一个爱人而变得不自信,也不敢相信真情,只想从一夜情中找寻快乐,他们找到的不是快乐,只是一种短暂的发泄,过后则是更大的烦恼,更深的孤独。你是陷入了这种循环,只有你先认识到这点,你才能解脱。
            • 说的太精辟了!看来阁下经历了太多太多了才会有这样深刻的感受,不由得不令人感到既可怜有可悲,真的是大彻大悟了,哎,又是一个,呵呵
              • 不敢。有缘的人坐禅就能得道,并不是非要事事亲历的。我的大彻大悟的确有原因,但倒并非由于男女之情。看到别人水深火热,推人及己,推己及人。其实阁下乃性情中人,又有悟性,若能因此醒悟,就此跳出因果循环,倒也是一件善事。
                • 靠,写小说还是拍电影啊
                • 佩服JJ。
                • 小MM在修炼几年,就可以超过唐僧了:“刮风啦,下雨啦,大家赶紧收衣服啊。。。”(just kidding)
                  • 你应该说我需要再修行几年。我是修行,Jeff是修炼。修行是为成仙,修炼的都是妖精。我们两个一起努力吧。另,看来你的修炼功力不浅,给你看出来了:唐僧正是吾师,别打他主意啊。吾乃悟空也。
                    • 我是仙道妖道,内外双修。神仙MM,妖精JJ,大小同吃 。。。呵呵
                      • 也就是说自己是老流氓吧,哈哈
                        • 从俗人嘴里说出来,就变得那么粗俗了 :)
            • 好一个痴人说梦!
              • 和小MM认什么真啊。有梦想也是一种幸福
              • 太夸奖了。活佛是常被俗人当作痴人的,远有济公现有我。
      • 赠所有孤单在情人节的人。
        本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Valentines Day is NOT only for Lovers!Valentines Day is a day to not only express your love for others but also to love yourself. Below are 10 thoughts you can do on Valentines Day to make the day special for you:

        1. Look around you and appreciate those who care about you, be thankful they are in your life.

        2. Rather than expect a card, send a card to someone special in your life (your mum, a relative, a friend) and thank them for being them.

        3. Treat yourself on Valentines Day… if you don't love yourself then you will never be able to love others in a meaningful way.

        4. Call your mum or your dad, or that someone who made a difference in your life and thank them for caring about you.

        5. Enjoy your day, remember, that you are exchanging a day of your life.

        6. Take 5 minutes and sit quietly and reflect on all the blessings in your life. Remember there are always those who are in a worse situation than you.

        7. Do something nice for someone today. . . it may be as simple as smiling at someone in an elevator to buying someone a coffee.

        8. Call that friend or relative that you have not talked with in awhile.

        9. Cook or buy your favorite meal for dinner.

        10. Last but not least, don't feel sorry for yourself; be thankful for all the good in your life!

        Enjoy this Valentines Day, make it a day you look forward to!更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • and me, enjoy ~~~
    • me!!!!!!!!!!
    • 333
    • me too
    • me too. i did feel unhappy. usual as other days. i am happy (10% time in dim mood, but still try to be happy) and spread happiness and optimism to my friends. buddy, try to be positive anytime. agree with int_arts.
      you happy, me happy, everyone happy. that's the way we're supposed to. general love where, then the specific love will come sooner or later.
    • me too