本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I never pushed my kid to do anything - thats a true statement. She learns piano from suzuki school, whose philosphy is a perfect match - taking all competitiveness out of the experience of learning music. There is no competition, there is no pressure of passing whatever grade, there is not even any peer pressure... she plays piano, she loves it, she is good at it, without knowing anything how others play, or what grade she is at... I am totally fine with it..
As for Chinese study - like many kids, she does not like it. I am encouraging her to speak more Chinese.. but again, I never pushed it. I speak Chinese to her, she speak English to me. I was never worried about her language skills. If she does not like it, she does not like it. end of story.
When I was small, I had similar experience... at one time, i was good at drawing.. My parents took many effort to put me into a club or sort of it.. Once I got admitted, I told them I did not like it and did not want to go there again. They did a moderate persuasion job.. But when they saw I meant it, they did not push it. I was 6 then.
My memory was very good.. some times can scare poeple. My memeory traced back when I was a few months old.. I may not be a pure human, some times I really felt like it.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net