本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛you still don’t quite understand what I am talking about. you might as well have problems on the relationships among your surroundings--not only your kid(s).(boss, clients, colleague. etc)--not offensive though.
a truly success person will make friends with MOST of his/her surrounded people. you are success in the workplace with boss/clients, but not with other people--it's easily can be seen there is a problem right there and you don't want to fix it. no wonder other people don't like you or your actions.
风芒太露—it’s not your fault. I was a lot liked you when I was young—well, I still young though  but I always remind myself and my kid the following: Leadership consists of nothing but taking the responsibility for everything that goes wrong and giving your subordinates credit for everything that goes well---Dwight Eisenhower-美,艾森豪威尔将军。 try this, everybody will like you later :) .
my son is so outstanding in all areas that , as you can see, there were few kids didn't appreciate that and tried to give him hard time.... things happened ..., but, eventually, they understood and willingly want to be friends with my son, and they are good friends now!
keep your value as long as it’s a good one though
one more friend is much better than one more enemy.—a Chinese saying?
Thanks for the good heart to try to help other Chinese in their workplace. I also know my points of views might not easily be accepted by you or other people-I understand this when I close to 40th. Good luck.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net