her D. got into Harvard/Yale--by the way, her D looks like exact the same type of Chinese kid: good at everything, but i believe part of the reasons her D got admitted is benefited from her mom's public criticises.
And the ways she nurtures her kids are against the value in here--for admission offices in Ivies/other Us., what will they think and see Chinese applicants? We always say they bias us, look at what we have done--she will make future Chinese kids' applications a lot more fierce.
It is natural we think about ourselves, our kids. But just sometimes, what we did will affect/haunt the future families/kids and they will not have a fair competition ground.
I see this as the same reason why we need to recycle materials/preserve the Mother Earth right now:
we simply give a better future for next generation--not only my/your own kids.
And the ways she nurtures her kids are against the value in here--for admission offices in Ivies/other Us., what will they think and see Chinese applicants? We always say they bias us, look at what we have done--she will make future Chinese kids' applications a lot more fierce.
It is natural we think about ourselves, our kids. But just sometimes, what we did will affect/haunt the future families/kids and they will not have a fair competition ground.
I see this as the same reason why we need to recycle materials/preserve the Mother Earth right now:
we simply give a better future for next generation--not only my/your own kids.