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这是april(april) 介绍<<The Glass Castle>>其中有关圣诞节的一个摘要. 蛮有意思.

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛“I never believed in Santa Claus. None of us kids did. Mom and Dad refused to let us. They couldn't afford expensive presents and they didn't want us to think we weren't as good as other kids who, on Christmas morning, found all sorts of fancy toys under the tree that were supposedly left by Santa Claus.
Dad had lost his job at the gypsum, and when Christmas came that year, we had no money at all. On Christmas Eve, Dad took each one of us kids out into the desert night one by one.
"Pick out your favorite star", Dad said.
"I like that one!" I said.
Dad grinned, "that's Venus", he said. He explained to me that planets glowed because reflected light was constant and stars twinkled because their light pulsed.
"I like it anyway" I said.
"What the hell," Dad said. "It's Christmas. You can have a planet if you want."
And he gave me Venus.

Venus didn't have any moons or satellites or even a magnetic field, but it did have an atmosphere sort of similar to Earth's, except it was super hot-about 500 degrees or more. "So," Dad said, "when the sun starts to burn out and Earth turns cold, everyone might want to move to Venus to get warm. And they'll have to get permission from your descendants first.
We laughed about all the kids who believed in the Santa myth and got nothing for Christmas but a bunch of cheap plastic toys. "Years from now, when all the junk they got is broken and long forgotten," Dad said, "you'll still have your stars.”
― Jeannette Walls, The Glass Castle更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下沙龙 / 梦想天空 / 【平安之夜,写在又一年的平安之夜即将来临前的日子】曾经在这里贴过散文平安之夜。我很多的创作都有一丝一毫现实生活的印记。因为圈子不大,所以转来转去就那些.基于那些生活的点滴,有时做些戏剧化的描述与展现,作品跃然纸上。
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛散文平安之夜的男主角LEON和我工作的地方很近,我们在FOOD COURT遇到。后来相识,再后来有时就一起吃午餐。当然是他买了他的,我买了我的,大家一起找个地方坐下,一起边聊边吃。工作间隙的午餐时分。

    当时,他正在为争夺孩子的监护权而头痛,非常头痛。他完全不知道自己是否能打赢那场旷日依旧的官司,他需要一个倾听他的耳朵。我成了倾听他的耳朵。

    后来就有散文里的那个情节:在平安之夜,他打电话给我办公室,我下楼,俩一起喝了咖啡。然后各自回家。

    从那之后,很多事情淡然地随时光流走了。LEON得到了孩子的共同抚养权,满足了心愿。他依旧在我工作的附近上班,我们依旧有时一起吃午餐。谈话的内容从争夺抚养权转到欢天喜地地汇报他孩子们的近况,他对未来的打算。。。。

    他也会谈到他的女友们,但来来回回,谈过几个女友,最终都没有走进婚姻。他对未来充满乐观。他觉得如果找得到合适的,就结婚;找不到合适的,就永远做一个单亲爸爸,享受自己与孩子们在一起的时光。

    他去过我家几次。有几次还带着他的孩子。有一次,我婆婆公公他们也在。LEON成为我们家的一个朋友。

    我和我家同学也去过他的家。单身父亲的家,没有我家温馨整洁,但对一个单身男生来说,已经很不错了。不过,我从来没有单独去过他家。

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    待续,等我喝口水。:)更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 原来这样老被人请吃午餐~~~lol ~~ 水喝好了没? 继续~~~
      • 口水哪里这么好找。
        • 呀, 你来了~~记得啦啦还找你来着~~
          • 不可能,我才邀请她看球,我请客,都没回音。
            • 和你出去,比和也有事情同学出去,都危险。铁定。
              • 有什么危险?
                保证不打死你。
                • 你不被我打死,算你运气。不是吹的呢。
                  • 呵呵,那就周末见?
                    • 想得美。
                  • LOL~
    • 挺好的,多和他孩子玩玩,小朋友喜欢热闹的。
      • 我的意思是:男女友人吃饭喝咖啡,很多时候是纯洁的,不是都得暧昧。
        • 我知道你和老公去看他,内心是纯洁的,但我更想说,男女纯洁不纯洁,和单身妈妈,单身爸爸的孩子们一起玩是人生的乐趣。我看到你帖子潜在的快乐,就说了,哈哈
          • 他儿子也学冰球,但是LEON是不打冰球的,所以,我家同学和他儿子特别有缘。他们俩是隔代友人。LOL。
            • 你老公人真不错,好好珍惜啊,多做点好吃的,LOL
              • 最后一句很伤害我呀。明明知道我那啥的。我会给他买披萨和汉堡。温馨披萨。
                • 营养也要讲究,赶明我介绍几个有营养的菜,春夏秋冬不同饮食调节。
                  • 我婆婆会,她会照顾我家同学的饮食的。她非常开心我做饭不如她,非常开心。我居然都看得出来呢。
                    • 多好的婆婆,你真是幸福!
    • 幸福的LEON
    • 等续:“直到有一天”........~
    • 【CON'T】
      每次午餐谈话之后,回到家,我会与我家同学分享部分谈话内容。因为LEON也是我家同学的朋友了。不过,毕竟LEON和我认识更久,也更谈得来。

      从第一次平安夜咖啡后,之后又过了不少个平安之夜。而每次平安之夜,只要我在上班,LEON一定打电话到我办公室,请我下楼和他喝一杯平安之夜的咖啡。每次都在同一间咖啡馆。到目前为止,我们已经一起喝过几次平安夜咖啡了。这似乎已经成为LEON生活里的一部分。每次,只要我平安之夜上班的话。

      当然,每次LEON在平安之夜下班前来电话,我都会电话知会我家同学,我会晚些回家,我会得到我家同学的同意。

      之所以今天此时此刻与朋友们分享这些,是因为男女午餐谁买单的大讨论。

      真实地说,我确实没有过多的想法:为什么LEON平安之夜会愿意与我一起喝杯咖啡,而且几年过去了,已然成为他的习惯。我真地没有去想太多的问题。我只是自然地自如地随意地接受他的邀请。我想:来自遥远祖国的友人,我可以做到的也只能这么多了。

      我从来没有问过他为什么。我想; 我还是不要问为什么吧。我也没有期盼平安夜咖啡,但是我知道,只要我在多伦多,就会有平安之夜的咖啡。就会有。


      ----THE END------
      • "为什么LEON平安之夜会愿意与我一起喝杯咖啡,而且几年过去了"? 为什么一直他买单? 因为索取的人是他, 给予的人是你. 因为需要这杯咖啡的人, 是他, 不是你.
        • 我非常尊重LEON,我觉得他是一个很有尊严的男子汉。他从来不会在我平安之夜不上班时那么做,也不会提前要让我专门空出平安之夜和他喝咖啡。我觉得,他很尊重我。
          • 君子之交, 淡如水, 或者咖啡.
      • 1, 太平淡~~~
        做你的朋友真心不错~~~ 如果我需要, 你能陪我吗? ~~~&_*
        • 如果你是男生,嘻嘻。
          • 重色轻友!!! ~~~不可能,我才邀请她看球,我请客,都没回音。 -broken_2(鲜花绽放的锁链❷); 15:10 (#9835717@0)
      • 白等了~LOL
        • 你们就是多想。呸、:)
          • 啦啦,明儿一直到新年前我都来不了这儿啦~带爸妈公婆出去玩~提前跟你说Merry Christmas啦~特喜欢你这个可爱的妞~啵~~~
            • 哇,明年见。明年见。。。。(请你想象一下,这里有山谷那种回音。。。回音。。。回音。。。。。), 圣诞快乐,新年快乐。(想象我是扯着嗓子眼儿在山顶上对你喊的。。。。。。的。。。的。。。)。:)
            • Merry Christmas! CRUISE 开心~~
              • 啵~~
            • 喂,多拍些照片,带些露背,露事业线的那些晚礼服啥的,我们要看照片。
            • 就啵给她一个? 我终于也有了"想要而得不到的", 命啊.
              • LOOOOOOOOOL,打个小报告,安知鱼同学与果果同学握过手了。我大喇叭大到底了。
              • 啵~~狠狠地~~lol~
                • 这下, 我这个圣诞节算是落实了~~~~~~MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOURS! :)))))
                  • 瞧你猴急猴急的, 我多淡定~~
    • 平安夜,呵呵,你给他安全感。 +1
      • 其实是取暖.
    • 这是april(april) 介绍<<The Glass Castle>>其中有关圣诞节的一个摘要. 蛮有意思.
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛“I never believed in Santa Claus. None of us kids did. Mom and Dad refused to let us. They couldn't afford expensive presents and they didn't want us to think we weren't as good as other kids who, on Christmas morning, found all sorts of fancy toys under the tree that were supposedly left by Santa Claus.
      Dad had lost his job at the gypsum, and when Christmas came that year, we had no money at all. On Christmas Eve, Dad took each one of us kids out into the desert night one by one.
      "Pick out your favorite star", Dad said.
      "I like that one!" I said.
      Dad grinned, "that's Venus", he said. He explained to me that planets glowed because reflected light was constant and stars twinkled because their light pulsed.
      "I like it anyway" I said.
      "What the hell," Dad said. "It's Christmas. You can have a planet if you want."
      And he gave me Venus.

      Venus didn't have any moons or satellites or even a magnetic field, but it did have an atmosphere sort of similar to Earth's, except it was super hot-about 500 degrees or more. "So," Dad said, "when the sun starts to burn out and Earth turns cold, everyone might want to move to Venus to get warm. And they'll have to get permission from your descendants first.
      We laughed about all the kids who believed in the Santa myth and got nothing for Christmas but a bunch of cheap plastic toys. "Years from now, when all the junk they got is broken and long forgotten," Dad said, "you'll still have your stars.”
      ― Jeannette Walls, The Glass Castle更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net