pre-requisition. Sex is one of the major ingredients in a relationship. Love is a feeling and feelings can change over time. The reason. Two people may love each other. But as time passes and due to the different exposure they each experienced, age and way of thinking. people can grew apart in quite a bug way. Many couple and separated people. because of their baggage and this baggage can be the ingredient to keep the couple together or apart. And for separated people, this baggage can most of the time prevent one to commit to a new relationship. I don't know how old you are and what kind of life experience you have but you need to distinguish what is just a relationship and what is a committed relationship. One thing I need to point out. Be yourself and don't purposely do something to satisfy a man to keep a relationship. This does NOT work. Trust me.