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For his children.

If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity had been cherish of life, I must say Yes, he had been.
If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity was sincere and serious to the people and things he chose to face, I must say Yes, he was.
If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity was always hoping that other people could grow and improve themselves with or without his advice, I must say Yes, he was.
If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity was considered a gentleman, I must say Yes, he was.
If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity was energetic for all the time, I must say Yes, he was.
If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity's passing was unfair, I must say Yes, it was unfair.

I wish his soul rest in peace and he won't be too busy any more. I also wish that our souls can meet his in future, when we can say we appreciated him being our companion.
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  • 兵哥印象❶ +10
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛几次提笔,又几番放下,一则和兵哥之间交流的机会不似有些网友这么多,二则我自觉也不是最适合写兵哥的人选。虽然兵哥也时常来天地坛指点江山,但他的精华之作和事业坛的交集颇多,而我们这些工作生活相对稳定些的网友,对于兵哥那些苦口婆心式的宏文,有时是带着挑骨头的心态去揣摩的。

    但是,对于这样一位大哥级网友的离去,总觉得有些块垒堵在胸口,便有需要写一写,不仅仅为纪念兵哥,也可以是对我们的自省。

    回想起来“认真”上Rolia也就是这几年的事,这恰巧也是兵哥被称作兵哥的时候。一般来说,网上被称作哥大多数都是调侃,是给那些常摆谱,爱炫耀,好离戏的网友的谐名。而“兵哥”的由来却不是这般简单,那可以说是职场篇和心态篇一字一句堆砌出来以后赢得的尊称,相对借用于东洋名人的所谓“老师”,何止云泥之别。

    或许有些兵哥口中所指的“时政网友”会不以为然,事实上也确是如此,越是观点鲜明条理清晰的人越容易也很容易被其他网友攻击(前面的容易是指容易招致,后者是指容易实施),以至于这两天也不得消停。而今我不想遣责任何人,因各人有各人的委屈,也有各自的因缘。话说若是以前,像我这般粗鄙之人,定会把对方骂个猪血崩脸,但这里有兵哥,虽然兵哥已经离去久远,但他那些洋洋洒洒,如今已成字字珠玑的梵唱,于是那些揶揄恶意瞬间便化作清风明月似有若无了。

    无缘结识网下的兵哥,但感觉中他应该是位大处谨严小处随和的人。在网上,他更表现得是小处也敏锐,不由地给人以执着的感觉。然而每个人又何尝不都是如此,在海阔天空的网络世界,心里的一些理念都会放大,有些人因此变得猥琐,也有些人只是更计较,还有些人表现得更孩子气更任性些,这都可从今昨的帖子里看得到。而兵哥的执着是对事而言,在传播他的经验和处事哲学上,他是言之而后快的;但对人上,毕竟是心态系列的著作人,却不见他有着急的时候。有些网友对他的表述方式有意见,却把这些意见引申为方法论之外的事,这非常不可取。

    兵哥有着辉煌的履历,但从未刻意吹嘘过。但凡在他的文章里,都是提出各种来源的实例,然后用客观平常心来分析,有破有立,侃侃而谈犹如春风化雨。或许有些例子触动了一些网友的失意之心或者隐痛,使他们变得非常地defensive,但作为驰骋业界多年的老guru,兵哥的这些来之不易的经验和他对办公室政治的分析,应该已成为是绝大部分新老网友长久的精神财富。

    青青子衿悠悠我心,兵哥的离去,是Rolia网史上很悲伤的一幕,然而作为Rolia网友,兵哥在我们心中已经赢得生前身后名,令人敬仰。更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 写得太好了!一定要赞!文笔流畅,文字清新。不知不觉中,兵哥的形象仿佛就在眼前。
    • +1
    • 赞。原来“时政网友”是兵哥的发明。
      • 坛史一大贡献
    • 顶!
    • +100
    • 写的好!!!不知能否借用在兵哥追悼会上作为肉联网友的集体追思感言? +2
      • +1
      • 他的孩子据说只听得懂英文版的。组织者说若有人发言,请时间限制在5分钟左右。
      • 很好的悼词
      • 悼词应该有溢美之词,这不合适。
    • 写的真好,谢谢你说出我心中所想。我从他的IT入门,学习了不少东西。他写过很多东西,虽然不是他所有观点都同意,但从他的字里行间,看的出他的直率和真诚。兵哥走好。
    • 兵哥(我第一次这样称呼他,因为以前不确定他的年纪)作为84届名牌大学毕业的大学生是很有资质的,也很认真执著,不像我类对网上的事从不上心。
    • 写得真好!文中所描述的,也正合我对他行文说事的印象。。。 +1
    • . +3
      如果问我,wincity 是不是个对人生和生命热爱的人?我得说是。
      如果问我,wincity 是不是个对人对事认真的人?我得说是。
      如果问我,wincity 是不是希望他人会改进修正自己的人?我要说是。
      如果问我,wincity 算不算个君子?我要说算。
      如果问我,wincity 算不算精力旺盛充沛?我要说算。
      如果问我,wincity 的逝去算不算老天的不公?我要说算。

      愿他安息,在天之灵不用再忙碌。愿那天,我们都去了,会在那里遇到他。

      如果有人能把网友的话打印出来,留给他的孩子们看,多谢。
      • 小C回来了? Welcome back.
      • ..
        For his children.

        If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity had been cherish of life, I must say Yes, he had been.
        If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity was sincere and serious to the people and things he chose to face, I must say Yes, he was.
        If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity was always hoping that other people could grow and improve themselves with or without his advice, I must say Yes, he was.
        If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity was considered a gentleman, I must say Yes, he was.
        If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity was energetic for all the time, I must say Yes, he was.
        If I was asked for an opinion, on whether Wincity's passing was unfair, I must say Yes, it was unfair.

        I wish his soul rest in peace and he won't be too busy any more. I also wish that our souls can meet his in future, when we can say we appreciated him being our companion.
      • !!
      • done.
      • 真的是混姐?
      • !!!
      • !
      • 也问候一下。
      • !!! 人生难得是相聚。不要再轻易离开
    • 很执着, 直率, 真诚, 热心助人的学霸 ! ~~
    • 本是为抛砖引玉,就暂时不贴了。
      • 大家还等着看2呢!
    • 顶!!!!
    • 随便一逛,竟出这么大一事! 也纪念一下。在这里,虽然我们的观点南辕北辙,不过争论归争论,我倒是满喜欢他不愠不火的秉性,性情中人,是一个值得怀念的人
      在外语坛,他倒是的个刚直,不依附的角色,确是有做学问的理工逻辑。他的离去,肉联少了许多特色,不过他的文字还在,挥之不去。我不交朋友,不参与社区活动。就借楼主贵帖纪念一下他。如果,如果,有在天之灵一说,他大概能记起一个叫eric的网友,以前的话题,也许我们将来在天国继续纠结。
      • 好人到处都有朋友,愿他一路走好!
    • 顶!!!