before in the relationship, i always wanted lots of attention from guys. when i didnt get it i felt hurt. i wasnt happy. an ex said to me , when i told him he hurt my feelings, "u are hurting yourself. u just dont know how to be happy". it sounded very cold that time for me. now i understand somehow he was right.
nobody can hurt u if u dont allow them.
be strong. love urself first. be happy with yourself first. then seek and love the one who really loves u.