这年纪的孩子可能可以给他们讲讲responsibily. 哪些是他们该做的, 不管boring 不boring, 这是他们份内的事. 我儿子以前有句名言: I don't have to if I don't want to. 然后我和他爸经常那这句话说事:I don't have to cook super for you if I don't want to.
I don't have to buy you shoes if I don't want to.
I don't have to read books to you if I don't want to...
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