还是一个“适度”的问题。其实爱本身就意味着,to some extend,一些付出,一些牺牲,关键就是这个to some extend,过了这个extend,就是extremism,不管是往那边 extremism,都不好。“中庸”,是世界智慧之大成。
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2009-9-1(#5520597@0)
我喜欢卡通片“little chicken"里面爸爸跟小kevin?讲的那句话“I love you, son. and I am sorry if I ever made you feel that was sth you had to earn."
-baalinca(发言有xx内容观众自行);
2009-9-1(#5520554@0)
Let me repeat the very simple question again--- Do you drive your kid to piano lesson every week? The next word I want to hear from your mouthsuppose to be Yes or No, otherwise all you said are in contempt in this topic.
-hawai(hawai);
2009-9-1{78}(#5522023@0)
It is a Yes. but I fail to see the relevance..before my wife bought her own car, I was the cab driver in my house hold. Every morning, I drove my kid to school, drove my wife to work, then went to my office..It was not even in the same direction. Every afternoon, I'd pick up my kid from school, and pick up my wife from work.. It was a routine for more than 6 years. I enjoyed it and whenever I have a chance, I'd still insist of doing it.. I never mind doing house work. I like cooking, dish washing, cleaning.. It is just my way of relaxation.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-9-1{503}(#5522026@0)
That's the point! Don't you see you're the very guy you're talking about in your post who is "sacrificing" for kid? Spending so much precious enery and time on driving car for your kid,and not even in the same direction, though you may say you are willing and enjoy it as many other parents, however, it is truth that is sacrificing.
-hawai(hawai);
2009-9-1{148}(#5522066@0)
You are very sensitive human bing. I believe that you are very much aware of your inner-self. Hope to meet you and your family someday.
-sh20030(sh20030);
2009-9-2(#5522980@0)
Thx... I am friend of Cap Mike.. for sure we will have chance to meet in one of rolia parties
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-9-2(#5523509@0)