You think you can change a shoplifting mom?
-wincity(toad);
2009-10-4(#5588505@0)
I don't think we can change the mother but we can give our son a good example of what a good citizen should be.
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-4(#5588521@0)
Maybe a good citizen should leave shoplifters alone?
-wincity(toad);
2009-10-4(#5588539@0)
I am sad to see that girl knowing what she was doing was wrong, and hearing what other advising how to do, but still continue to do it..... I tell my son to study hard in order not to be a neighbor with her in the future.What else should I tell......:-)
-nicetomeetyou(蓦然回首彩虹跨天地);
2009-10-4{32}(#5588555@0)
You have a very good son. If I were you, I would tell him that he was right and I was wrong. I am sorry about it and I would do the right thing next time.
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-4(#5588556@0)
I didn't want to report it to staff right away because I need to verify what my son reported to me was right. Shoplifting is a serious issue so I must be serious to be a witness. When I decided to report,we couldn't find any staff around, and they went away.
This may happen in everywhere and everyday.
I am glad to see that my children reacted correctly when something with different social values shocked them, and they expressed their anger without hesitation..
They probably have never experienced this before.
-nicetomeetyou(蓦然回首彩虹跨天地);
2009-10-4{321}(#5588708@0)
Well, it is up to Costco to decide what to do after you reported the incident to them. They can let the shoplifters go, or call police.
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-4(#5588732@0)
don't get too serious and harsh at 牛哥... this is an open forum. you can show off even more if you wish/can.
-anthonylo2008(anthonylo);
2009-10-5(#5591037@0)
Be careful.你攻击一个集体“恶质”可是有代价的。你跟这帮Rolia“恶质”一块混,你就不“恶质”了?你图什么?是实在没别处可去吗?不会吧,当初大家搜索出来的线索表明,你那“恶质”广告,可是中英文网站通发啊。
-innn(inn);
2009-10-6(#5591575@0)
你继续google, I don't care, I know myself, and I know what type of person you are. I have no control of you, until you hit bottom line.
-nicetomeetyou(蓦然回首彩虹跨天地);
2009-10-6(#5591636@0)
我是个好人,这就是我的老底, 我们能不能见上一面? 男人之间的true talk, 不应在网上互相诋毁. 这里很多人我都见过了, 我从不会巴结人,因为没这个习惯. 对朋友,一旦结识,我不会放弃, 我也从不主动诋毁别人, 因为这不是我的基因. 网上网下,里里外外,我是一个人, 见一面,好吗?If you are a man, otherwise, don't throw shit on me, I am not going to buy it. u understand?
-nicetomeetyou(蓦然回首彩虹跨天地);
2009-10-6{93}(#5591677@0)
话不投机 can be a good thing. I don't agree with nicetomeetyou's business direction but I like to chat with him. If I only talk to people who agree with me, I would never find out my weakness and mistake before they jump up to haunt me.As a matter of fact, if 1 day I need a partnes, I would prefer someone who is 话不投机 as long as we can disucss our difference in a civilized way, like a gentleman.
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-6{165}(#5591837@0)
自己刷的,儿子喜欢红和白. 这是他们的小计算机房, all kids sit there raising virtual webkinze animals in their "virtual house" together.
-nicetomeetyou(蓦然回首彩虹跨天地);
2009-10-6(#5591842@0)
我有个缺点,就是认真起来,认死理, 我几乎和每个曾经质疑我的人PM我的电话, 希望能进一步交流, 可惜,没有一个回应. I am tired of all of shits from different hidden corners here and there...Who are they in real life?
-nicetomeetyou(蓦然回首彩虹跨天地);
2009-10-6(#5591696@0)
I sit behind you, LOL!
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-6(#5591718@0)
and don't look back!
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-6(#5591720@0)
You started this shit, and It looks like you are really enjoying " all of shits from different hidden corners here and there... " Do you?
-huimin(huimin);
2009-10-6(#5591724@0)
+1. Life in Canada is tough but that's not the excuse to lower the level of standard. Nobody cares the kids who will get the toy from exchanged box?
-james4rn(james);
2009-10-6(#5591975@0)
"各人自掃家門雪,不管他人瓦上霜" This is what is in my mind now. Is it so hard to change our behaviour?
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-6(#5591699@0)
"勿以恶小而为之,勿以善小而不为。" "小时偷针,大时偷金" Did our teachers teach us the meaning of these 2 statements? Is shoplifting just 小恶 and we should tolerate it?
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-6(#5591714@0)
i seldom argue with you, but i have to say here that people also should frequently remind himself to stay away from "BEING TOO JUDGMENTAL" ......
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2009-10-6(#5591759@0)
Well, it is not agument. I like discussion with other gentlemen. And if you don't agree with me, I very welcome your critique. After all, I am far, far from perfect.
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-6(#5591778@0)
And you are right that I should not jump to conclusion because after all, we only heard 1 side of the story. However, when I make these comments, I did not just refer to what nicetomeetyou's story.It is a general comment after I read all the posts about the ideas "mind your own business" and "shoplifting is nothing serious".
I hope when I feel on the street at a slippery icey night, people won't just walk by me and mind their own business without offering me any assistance. You may say I have a very big nose but when I saw cars tracing each other crazily, I really called 911.
But thanks for reminding me, not "BEING TOO JUDGMENTAL"
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-6{455}(#5591813@0)
都讨论三天了!实在没看出来牛哥哪不妥了,这么多人砸。sigh...个人觉得没有shoplifting那么严重,但母女行为肯定不对是真。对待不对的事,有些人避开自己不做就是,有些人看不顺眼一定要理论下。simple as that.
-uptowngirl(若初 river waltz);
2009-10-6(#5591780@0)
9494, too simple, sometimes... sigh.....
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2009-10-6(#5591796@0)
I am far, far away from 值得钦佩. If I were at Costco, I might not even dare to point out the wrong doing. This is why I said it would take a lot of courage to stand up and nicetomeetyou's boy did it. I am shame on myself not even as good as a boy!Good boy!
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-7{9}(#5593496@0)
牛哥, if most residents in a country only care about themselves and don't stand up for justice. What future do you think this country has?
-hkchan(0);
2009-10-9(#5598006@0)