They have a very simple and clear objective. They would do whatever they can to achieve their target. Personally, I admire them. I wish I can be as strong as they are.
-hkchan(0);
2009-12-28(#5767181@0)
it depends on the definition of "success". to me, making people around me having a happy life is the number 1 criteria.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2009-12-28(#5767300@0)
also depends on how u define "people around you ",
-mickeyh(mickey);
2009-12-28(#5767304@0)
I truly respect people who can bring happier life to other people. And please think about you can help more people when you are in management. How about helping someone to promote to a position that he was capable of?He didn't get the promotion because he never market his success and talents. And you helped him to market.
You can bring happiness to more people if you have the power.
-hkchan(0);
2009-12-28{173}(#5767311@0)
I agree with u for the most part, but how do u solve this problem: sometime u feel people hate u just because u r greater than them? that is really not a good feeling. u feel guilty even u have not done anything really wrong
-mickeyh(mickey);
2009-12-28(#5767215@0)
are you selling your Pink theory :)
-glair(五味子);
2009-12-30(#5770651@0)
hi, the parents should be consider whether they are teachering their kid the right thing in this caseI 've knew a girl like the one you described and met with her mother before. The mother really think is that other girls are picking her daughter, I was trying hard to convince her, no one girl in the same school/classroom is doing something bad to her daughter, but... as many other parents, always think that's somebody's fault, how can you be accepted in the community in this way? being a parent is not a easy job, I 've learning this stuff before my son was born , well, still keep learning!
-lucy09(lucy);
2009-12-28{500}(#5767429@0)
I aslo do't mind if my kids become 头号笑柄 if they don't 吸毒 and 酗酒. So far, I haven't heard these are the requirements of university entrance. I never smoke and back in school, my classmate challenged if I were a man.I challenged them if they dared to smoke like a man in front of our headmaster! I called them coward because they didn't even dare to stand up for what they believed, i.e. they had the right to smoke in school and force all other kids to smoke!
-hkchan(0);
2009-12-28{246}(#5767361@0)
hi, i don't want to offend you, but I have something want to share with you: there is a western saying that(Greek?), people will know the parents by just looking at their kids.I have many people(western people) told me that, they already know me how i am before meeting me, only by knowing my son. another saying is(i got this from a parental course): you can't change somebody else(your kids, spouse...), but you can change yourself first.
-lucy09(lucy);
2009-12-30{265}(#5771478@0)
There is no offense! We just shared our view and discuss things that we may not agree. It is difficult to change but I try very hard to change. I have to be more outgoing and market myself much harder since I now have my own business.Regarding my kids, I (and their teachers) discuss with them but I let them make the decisions themselves. She wants to study art which I really not agree, but it is her choice.
-hkchan(0);
2009-12-30{177}(#5771520@0)
you might not realy understand what i was saying?我是说,如你的小孩在校, 在外面与人交往 有这样那样的问题, 先捡查一下你做为家长有没有类似的问题?孩子是我们的镜子。你如何待人,就期待你孩子学了你如何待人---同勉
-lucy09(lucy);
2009-12-30{160}(#5771550@0)