忍不住要冒出来支持你,而且非常佩服你。在这样的的压力下,做到如此有条理。。。尽最大限度保护自己的孩子天经地义,不记得在哪儿看到的“父母就是孩子的贵人”--绝对是的。。。那些说三道四的不是没养育过孩子就是对孩子不是很上心的,你直接忽略是对的。。。在这里生活一定是有concern就要出声,特别是碰到原则性问题,但是掌握那个度真的很难,你已经做的很好,在那种情况下有些overacting算是正常的,即使还有其他一些有缺憾的处理方式却能给其他父母有所警示。。。你的孩子已经受到保护这是最重要的,你的爱心肯定能让他在最短时间消除这个心理阴影。。。但愿你在以后的新环境中可以take everyting easier when deal with your son's care-givers and teacher。Good Luck!
-wonjob(eh);
2010-7-26{389}(#6197554@0)
"Even if you suspect it is or the child tells you it is, report it immediately. It's the job of Family Services or Child Protective Services to determine if it actually is occurring." ... do not over use it though....
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2010-7-27(#6198274@0)
You are only hearing one side of the story, how can you be sure what happened? My 2 year old son's foot was hurt by a new shoe, but he said the teacher did it.
-vicky2005(孩子她爹);
2010-7-27(#6198503@0)
From I have read, I am not sure what have happened. Hopefully, LZ's husband agreed to have CAS involved. Otherwise, it may end up with situation that no one want to see. That is all my comment.
-vicky2005(孩子她爹);
2010-7-27(#6198574@0)
CAS介入很好,没有什么不好的后果。如果判定老师没有太大的问题,dismiss the case,但对老师有失公平。如果认定老师有问题,坏人就会得到”惩罚“,楼主的委屈也得到抚慰。真正的问题是:楼主为什么不先跟老师直接谈?如果谈了无效,再找CAS也不迟。院长到底给回复了没有?楼主好像也没有交代。---- 也许我没有看到,如果这一点讲错了,请原谅。
-hwy400(朱元璋);
2010-7-27{160}(#6198757@0)
"别瞎说了,又撒谎,你们老师多好啊~一定是你自己磕的。撒谎是不对的,你再这样我就告诉你们老师去。。。" 嘿嘿~~good luck to your kids then!
-cat71(曾经狗不理);
2010-7-28(#6201273@0)
Any slightest suspicion can justify you moving your kid as precaution, but it's unreasonable to use unsubstantial imaginations to make serious accusations to any one.CAS investigation doesn't mean much -- this organization (maybe also the Humane Society) is known for going out of the way to justify its relevance. They would thank you in any case to keep their jobs in place -- it's our tax money (and charity money) working hard.:-)
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2010-7-29{271}(#6201906@0)