you are narrow-minded too! OP and her husband are raising this boy properly and as a result, the boy is quite mature!
-sharer1(sharer);
2011-6-14(#6741466@0)
英语不好,不知道the boy is quite mature是什么意思。我的意思是男孩子13、14岁以后就变得比较深沉,不会再象小的时候,评论X孩子这样、Y孩子那样了。
-howtosay(咋说呢);
2011-6-15(#6742971@0)
good comments!
but do not agree totally on everything written, one example: the boy did not judge X - he was expressing his opinions about X, just as you present your opinions on the boy ...
-sharer1(sharer);
2011-6-15(#6745198@0)
for the benefit of the posters/readers:those who are humble/grateful/willing to learn/improve/grow ... (regardless of one's current stage/level/situation) will benefit themselves and the children; those who are assuming/naive/ignorant ... will do the opposite. results (good or bad) will show sooner or later (1.3.5..10...yrs) and it will be very difficult to erase/modify bad results (the later, the worse). time goes fast and one cannot turn the clock back. no medicine for regrets!
-sharer1(sharer);
2011-6-18{446}(#6751136@0)