I remember this is research to conclude: 90% or more of a human being's behaviour is determined by his/her gene. As parents, what we can do is to understand the nature of our kids, , create a relax environemnt for them to grow up.
-ebusiness(健康平安就是福);
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I mean: many aspects of 外表和内心、言语和行为、成功与失败、幸福和悲伤 are pre-determined by gene, don't attempt to change the nature of a kid, don't set unreasonable expection for the kid.For example, if a kid is 依懒性强, parents can encourage him to be a little more independent, but don't expect him to be as independent as others, don't expect him to have very strong leadership. 依懒性强 is not a bad thing, kids can find a way to live with it.
-ebusiness(健康平安就是福);
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