呵呵,又圈回你的心态篇了!说得也对,deal with the kid's so-called behavioral problem 还不如直接deal with the teacher's perception in an "non defensive" manner.
-member321(5天田);
2012-4-14(#7433677@0)
这些当然是perception, very negative perception. 作为老师,当然不可以如此轻易下结论。一旦如此轻率下此评语,那这个老师也就不那么seasoned。 老到的老师们有很多其他招的。再说,老师也是人,喜欢谁不喜欢谁,哪怕对于一个小孩子,favoritism 照样存在。看老师自己如何处理自己的negative feelings了,家长当然也要注意自己孩子的behaviors. Humans are emotional animals, so feeling sad and being angry are justified. However, the point is how to control the behaviors, which is a learnt experience.
-member321(5天田);
2012-4-14{309}(#7433587@0)
有点象是自闭症。
-haploidus(今剩叹);
2012-4-14(#7433561@0)
Toddlers are saying-no experts. The developmental stage theory explains that it is just part of normal developmental process as they learn to declare their independence.
-member321(5天田);
2012-4-14(#7433576@0)